What does you attire say about you as a writer?

by Jeannie Ruesch

On Romance University.org, I talked about brand. Today’s post is sort of an epilogue to that one.Β  In every article I see on brand (including my own), we get so detailed on the basics of branding that we can often forget to discuss one very, very important element.Β  YOU.Β  The author.

Let’s say that Jane Author has written a fabulous book, gotten the uber-agent and the publisher of her dreams, and she’s on her way.Β  She’s building her brand — her website clearly shows that she writes mystery fantasy thrillers with a paranormal twist and sassy humor. Β  Her bookmarks reflect it.Β  Her ads reflect it.Β  All of her blog posts and guest blog posts and emails in loops reflect it.Β Β  She’s a master on brand…she’s ready for the readers.

Then she shows up.

Ms. Author arrives at a book-signing (hers or someone else’s), the national writer’s conference, a writer’s meeting or some other event where she will be engaging with those people who have the big, fat target on their back that says “potential reader.”Β  But rather than honor her branding nirvana, instead of treating herself like the professional she is, she shows up with her hair in an unkempt ponytail, a t-shirt and jeans that have seen better days.Β  (We won’t even discuss her shoes.)

She’s just committed one of the worst branding mistakes I’ve ever seen. (And I see it all too often.)

We’re also going to look at Ms. Jane Yet-To-Be-Published.Β  Ms. YTBP is serious about her career.Β  She has worked hard to learn her craft, she’s written books, she’s studied, and she’s rewritten books. Β She participates in her critique group and interacts with the online writing world, always respectful, mindful of her words and with aΒ  professional demeanor. She’s had a tasteful, basic website designed for her, and she started a blog that has begun gaining attention.Β Β  She’s doing everything right.Β  She is building a name for herself.

Then she shows up.

Ms. YTBP arrives at her RWA chapter meeting, a conference session, or that writing workshop given by a leading agent.Β  In sweats.

As writers, we’re well acquainted with the glamorous attire we wear while working.Β  Jeans on an ambitious day; sweats on every other day.Β Β But letting that person do your networking is as bad a faux paux as wearing jeans to a job interview.Β  You wouldn’t do that, because you want to project the best impression of yourself.

Anything that involves networking and connecting with others in your chosen professional –in this case, the writing world, which includes other writers, authors, agents, editors and everything in between– is an opportunity for your career.Β  If you want to be serious about a writing career, you need to present yourself as a professional.

There’s an old saying, “Dress for the job you want, not the job you have.”Β  This holds true for writers and authors working their way up their career.Β  Β Your image plays a big part in how people see you.Β  Your clothing choices, the time and attention you pay to yourself are very strong non-verbal communication cues.Β  Jeans indicate casual intent.Β  Sweats say you don’t care.Β  Nice slacks, a pretty skirt, a well-put together outfit say that it matters to you, that what you’re doing matters to you enough to put forth effort.Β  Out of the three choices above, which impression of you would you want that dream agent to have? Β In a blog post, Jessica Faust of Bookends agency said, “Dressing the part makes people believe that you’re an author they would regret missing out on. Who would you be more impressed by, the author in jeans and a T-shirt or the author wearing a striking suit?”

This goes for authors or writers yet to be published — who would be more impressive, more intriguing to talk to?Β Β  Just as important, your attire affects how you see yourself.Β  Putting on a little black dress makes us feel sexy, sassy and powerful,Β  dressing like a professional makes us feel…well, like a professional.Β  And I don’t know about you, but putting my sweats certainly doesn’t make me feel ready to take on the world.Β  However, the slacks, that pretty, feminine shirt I loved, and high heels definitely does.

If we’re going to dress for the job we want, presumably, that job is “NY Times best-selling author.”Β  So, consider the best-selling authors you’ve come in contact with personally — either at a book-signing, a chapter meeting or a conference.Β  I can’t recall any of them wearing jeans to an event or meeting.Β  When it comes to brandingΒ  you offer the best opportunity to show people you are a professional.Β  By dressing like one.

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6 comments

Stacey Joy Netzel April 26, 2010 - 6:59 am

I enjoyed your post at RU last week (though I didn’t comment) and this follow up is really good, too. I go halves on the dressing up. Always wear a dressy top and accessorize, do the hair and make-up, wear nice dressier shoes, but pair it with newer jeans. (definitely no holes or faded pairs!) I’m not sure if it matters in how the readers view me, but I’m more relaxed and able to be myself in comfortable jeans -vs- dress pants or skirt where I’m inevitably wondering if they look okay. This is for booksignings…and I’ve got one at a mall next week in connection with a Mom’s Night Out event. you’ve got me thinking about whether I should dress up more for that one now.

If I were meeting with an agent or editor, or when I’m at conferences when I would meet with them, I do leave the jeans for the more casual events and during the business hours of the day I bite the bullet πŸ™‚ and go with the more dressy clothes.

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Laurie Ryan April 26, 2010 - 8:21 am

That’s so funny you should mention this. A while back my husband and I were out for our daily walk in the park and struck up a conversation with someone. My guy, alwasy the marketer, mentioned that I write. And I had NO business cards on me. Yikes! Even worse, I got home and looked in the mirror. I was in full walking regalia, with sweatpants, a tshirt best reserved for painting in, and my hair stuffed up into an old ball cap. And no make-up.

So now I look in the mirror even before I go out for a walk. It pays to always look professional, eh?

Great post, Jeannie. Thanks!

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Jeannie Ruesch April 26, 2010 - 11:36 am

@Stacey — Hi there. I think newer, darker jeans can be classy and polished looking, depending on what they are paired with. And if that makes one feel more comfortable — while still giving a polished, professional appearance — that is really important, too.

Mom’s Night Out event sounds like fun! My opinion — especially for moms who see jeans ALL day long, you might consider dressing up a little. Another woman in jeans might just blend into the crowd. But if you wore something different, you might just get people curious…Who is she? I want to know… Especially in settings where you don’t know someone, consider what actions you want them to take…come and talk to you. Since YOU, the person, are the “visual” for the day… how do you present your brand in a way that makes them see you different from the crowd?

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Jeannie Ruesch April 26, 2010 - 12:16 pm

@ Laurie — You make an excellent point. Business cards or bookmarks or SOMETHING you can hand to someone should always be in your purse or bag. You never know when the opportunity will arise to meet someone interested in your work.

It really does pay to always look professional, even though there are times it’s not practical. LOL (If you’re a mom, you know that.) But applying a layer of lipstick on can do wonders. LOL

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Lavada Dee April 26, 2010 - 1:43 pm

I wholeheartedly agree. Years of experience in working out of the home validate what you say. A few years ago I was at a conference where Catherine Coulter was at. I was enthralled with her. Talk about a professional. My first encounter was when she swept into the bar. Swept is the only word I can think of. She was elegant, gracious, open. It was like she personally knew everyone without the good old boy (whoops girl) persona of jeans and sweat shirt. She was professional through and through.

I remember thinking that I wished I’d met and seen her while I was still working. Much of what she did I could have used. She definitely knew how to work a room. Until then I hadn’t read her, well that certainly changed.

Thanks for another insightful post.

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Silver James April 26, 2010 - 2:57 pm

Great follow-up to the RU article, Jeannie. I have to admit, I wore a lot of jeans last year at RWA, but with nice tops/jackets, and with my turquoise jewelry and western boots. I was going for a “look” and it worked. This year, I’m not sure what I’m going to “sport.” LOL

For chapter meetings, I tend to come comfortable, but with hair and makeup done and for any sort of “official public contact” I always dress appropriately. As much as I live in jeans, I’m old school when it comes to dressing for the public. I may be in jeans, but you can bet they are “dressed and pressed” with a blazer and blouse, depending on the function. If I need a business suit, you can bet I’ve got it one! πŸ˜€

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